Purpose of this Blog

Rob Gutro is an author, paranormal investigator and medium with Inspired Ghost Tracking of Maryland. Since he was a child he could receive messages from ghosts or spirits (who have crossed over). *He wrote the books "Pets and the Afterlife," "Pets and the Afterlife 2," "Ghosts and Spirits" and "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead" to teach others how ghosts and Spirits communicate with the living and to give proof of the afterlife. He also published his encounters with Ghosts in the U.K. in a fun and historic personal book called "Ghosts of England on a Medium's Vacation." As a scientist, he also provides some scientific explanations about how energy is the baseline for the afterlife and the medium that entities use to communicate.

Monday, May 22, 2017

Fact Check: Suicide Victims DO Cross into the Light

Recently I was messaged about a mis-statement made about suicide victims by medium on a national broadcast program. 

Apparently, a female medium (I don't know who it is) said  "No suicide vicitms crossover."  That's totally incorrect, and is actually dangerous to the people they leave behind. Of course suicide victims cross over

Some mediums hold tight to their religious beliefs that "teach" this ridiculous thought. The medium was influenced by her religion, and not connecting with spirit. 

As a medium, I've been told by spirits that they awaken on the other side somewhat confused. They realize what they've done and feel sorry for taking their lives. They also ask forgiveness from their loved ones. It is rare for a suicide victim to stay Earthbound as a ghost, as it is for anyone. In addition, their loved ones in spirit welcome them and encourage them to cross over.

However, if suicide victims hold strict religious beliefs, they may opt to stay Earth-bound for fear of "hell."  There is, however, no 'hell,' just love and forgiveness on the other side (in the light). I've learned that people who hold fast to their religious beliefs and realize or think they've done something harmful to themselves or someone else during their lifetime, opt to sometimes stay Earthbound as a ghost. 

Suicide victims, murder victims and anyone can cross over, and usually they do. So if you hear a medium who says they don't, and cites religion as the reason, the medium is not truly connected to spirit. 

 To learn more about how ghosts and spirits appear, check out the book "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead" by author/medium/paranormal investigator Rob Gutro.  Available on Amazon.com in e-book and paperback

Lessons Learned, Ghosts and Spirits
For Rob Gutro's books: "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead," "Pets and the Afterlife" and the new book "Pets and the Afterlife 2" -  visit Amazon.com   (or click this link) 
Pets and the Afterlife 2, Pets and the Afterlife


  1. I completely agree Rob! Religion Holds so many ppl back by preconceived notions of what to expect, etc. & whilst I respect ppl's beliefs, I can't count the disagreements I've had over the "animals don't have souls," or the whole notion of hell, etc. Li!me I tell them...what will they do when they cross over & find out they were wrong?

  2. Yay you Rob! I totally agree. I think it is relatively rare for souls to decide to stay earthbound. Who are we to make a blanket statement about all souls? We as souls have free will. All of us have the ability to choose during life and after.