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Rob Gutro is an author, paranormal investigator and medium with Inspired Ghost Tracking of Maryland. Since he was a child he could receive messages from ghosts or spirits (who have crossed over). *He wrote the books "Pets and the Afterlife," "Pets and the Afterlife 2," "Ghosts and Spirits" and "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead" to teach others how ghosts and Spirits communicate with the living and to give proof of the afterlife. As a scientist, he also provides some scientific explanations about how energy is the baseline for the afterlife and the medium that entities use to communicate.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Negative Energy and Sensitive People

During one of my recent book events, a woman came up to me and started talking about her abilities as a developing medium (like I am).
We talked about how ghosts utilize negative emotional energy and spirits (those who have crossed over into the light) use positive emotional energy to power up.
She mentioned that she's also an emotional person and talked with me about how being around people who are pessimistic tends to make her physically sick. The person she mentioned was her elderly mother, whom had grown from a loving mother into someone who was bitter, negative and never had a good word. The woman I met mentioned that when she goes to visit, she can't stay long periods of time, because the negativity actually affects her physically. For sensitive people and mediums who feel negativity and positivity more than the average person. In fact, the same thing happened to me. I was in a situation where I was visiting with an extremely negative, bitter person for two days (years ago) and I came home physically sick to my stomach with a headache that didn't abate for days.
So, if you do have mediumistic abilities, you're likely emotionally sensitive, and just know that a pessimistic person can drain your energy and actually make you physically sick.

15 comments:

  1. It's nice to know that there are others who have had the same experiences. If I get around someone who has a lot of evil in them, I will actually become ill & throw up, sometimes within minutes of contact with the person. With others, for example back-stabber, snakey types, I will break out in hives.

    I used to work in a hospital, but had to give that up when my sensitivity started to increase. I would go to work in a great mood, but within minutes of entering the bldg. I would become drained & experience mental confusion. It is a gift, but at the same time it can be a real burden.

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    1. I dont know how to reply. I feel like there is something wrong with me. But answering your story I know ther is nothing wrong with you

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  2. I just came across this. This makes so much since to me. I always could feel and know peoples bad thoughts and their emotional state. It makes me break out with rashes and feel very weak. My happy mood goes in seconds when its bad. I try to make myself ignore it but it can be very difficult at times.

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  3. People's negative emotions don't always affect me but I can always sense them. Or just emotions in general. I've been looking up being a "sensitive person" and my experiences lean more towards sensitivity to crowded areas (which I always linked to my claustrophobia) but mostly sound. Loud noises give me such bad anxiety (which make me want to throw up) even when it shouldn't. I can become downright mean if I have no control over the sound. Loud parties, yelling, music, even loud sneezes...etc, it physically hurts me. Normally I can read people, that is until my own system becomes overloaded. The funny part is that I will sense their emotions, but not their intentions...making me a terrible judge of character but a great friend.

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  4. I too "feel" other peoples moods/vibes. What I've been taught when those situations happen, is to think "Love and Light" and picture being drenched in God's light coming from up above and concentrating on being protected by saying those three words. Let me tell you, it works!

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    1. That's the right thing to do, and yes, it does work. On the Inspired Ghost Tracking Team, we do that before going in to private investigations.

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  5. Hello, I exprince different energies and feelings from room, ie peaceful, unpleasnat. The wired thing was being in a shop where there was a medium and possible tarot cards, this give me a feeling of being scared, physically shaking and the feeling that I should get out of there asap, eventhough i was not participating in any readings. I am good at reading people, my mood can be dramatically affected by people who are very negative or upset, this can have have a knock on affect leaving me drained and low in mood and tearfull. Very strange thing!!
    Any idea ?

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    1. Yes, negative energy can affect us physically. Think about being in the same room with an angry person who won't listen. The anger is negative energy that affects our energy, even if the angry person is not directing their anger at you. It's all about the environment.

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  6. I need some help But it seems like no one will help me without money . Can anyone help me?

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  7. This isn't what I expected . I feel like I am different in that I am sensitive to new places . For example , going Ito a strangers home I sometimes feel uncomfortable in a room or like someone else is there or watching me. I currently live with my boyfriend and there is a room downstairs that I can't even be around or look at because it is just a cold dark feeling room. I am only 19 and I have felt this way since I can remember . It maybe normal or just me, but I would like to know.

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    1. You are sensitive to energies. Going into new places, there are residual energies from emotional events that happened in the past. They can be good or bad emotional experiences and you obviously soak them up. It is a normal feeling to people like yourself who are sensitive.- You can always concentrate on bringing light into a dark space, sign, play soft music, burn some sage (it clears negative energy) and turn on lights. Bringing light into places that have negative feelings helps dispel the bad energy. For example if someone was murdered in a home, there would be negative energy left behind that needs to be cleared and purged. - Of course, in a basement, there could be electrical boxes emitting high electromagnetic fields which can make a person feel uncomfortable. Have an electrician check for high electromagnetic fields (EMFs). If there are high emissions, the electrician can insulate and reduce them. High EMFs often make people feel as if they are being watched.

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  8. I am sensitive to ghost I have seen them since 2011. I had experience at the Lizzy Borden in 2000 i was in the back room the room temp dropped and i knew something was watching me the hair on my back of my head stood up and felt something grab my hand and squeezed it and something went through me that day to see the ghost I see today.

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  9. Hello I just came across this. My repair man told me to search about sensitive people. I see dark and white shadow people, dream and feel things. I have had a lot of things occur in my apartment, example I have awoken to curry powder or ice cubes or spoons on my floor. Recently there has been a dark figure hanging from my 8ft high ceiling fan, but disappears as I fully enter the room. Ive had things happen to me since my father and grandfather has died at age 5. I saw them during the day and night, they tried to drag me back to their grave, awoken with bruises and I started to sleep walk. My mum took me to a children's hospital and they gave me dream suppressors. That is what was told to me. They helped until I turned 12.

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    1. You have high sensitivity, and are likely a very emotional person. Your father and grandfather's spirits were not likely trying to hurt you, but trying to protect you. There may be a ghost in your home and it sounds like it needs to be cleared out and crossed over. Contact a local paranormal investigation group and have them do an investigation- tell them you believe you have a ghost in the home and need it to be cleared. Paranormal groups should not charge for services- if one does, go to another. - Dreams are a way that spirits (not Earth bound ghosts) can give us messages. - It seems as if you need to purge your apartment of any earth-bound ghosts. Please feel free to contact me directly if you need help finding a group near you- My email is Rgutro@gmail.com.

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    2. I have found myself a bit depleted, communitively resistant & socially frozen tonight as well as apprehensive about going to sleep . There have been evenings that seem to reveal a tipping point from an accumulation of negative energy experiences (whether it be from a month, a week or a day) in that I have to refuse anymore of the same. For some reason those evenings seem to make me vulnerable to night terrors and paralytic dreams. We currently live in my husband's childhood home which has experienced several family tragedies (including suicides and child molestations) and on nights that I feel vulnerable I experience paralytic dreams as I close my eyes (not REM sleep) and have had enough these experiences in the past couple years to notice a correlation. I am not sure what more to do.

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