Purpose of this Blog

Rob Gutro is an author, paranormal investigator and medium with Inspired Ghost Tracking of Maryland. Since he was a child he could receive messages from ghosts or spirits (who have crossed over). *He wrote the books "Pets and the Afterlife," "Pets and the Afterlife 2," "Ghosts and Spirits" and "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead" to teach others how ghosts and Spirits communicate with the living and to give proof of the afterlife. As a scientist, he also provides some scientific explanations about how energy is the baseline for the afterlife and the medium that entities use to communicate.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Email Question: - Logical Thinking and Spirits

I received an email from a gentleman asking about how to determine whether his parents are at peace. His background is similar to mine, a background in science- so we were "taught" to both be logical thinkers. Because our logical mind always tries to explain things and usually discards unexplainable events, and calls things "coincidences" we don't recognize signs from spirits (those who have passed into the light). For the person that doesn't have mediumistic abilities, the only way that those spirits of passed loved ones can communicate is by coming to us in our dreams.
In fact, in this case, both parents did appear in this man's dreams. One thing I've noticed in speaking with a number of people, however, is that usually within the first year or two loved ones who have died will appear in a relative's dreams. However, that tends to fade.
After thinking about it, I believe that the spirits have given the person left behind, a year or two's worth of signs that they're okay in the afterlife. After that, they hope the living relative moves on with their lives and stops grieving. It's important that we who are left behind understand these signs, and that our loved ones who pass want us to move on.
We can, however call to those who have passed, and they will hear us. More on this in a future post.


  1. Hi Rob, it's Jen Nesbitt from Facebook saying hello! I'm here: http://myblankblogjennes.blogspot.com/

    This is an interesting post. My mother was visited by her grandfather shortly after he died, but not in dreams...he opened the door to her bedroom to look in on her, and then left. He wasn't visible, but she knew it was him. I visit with my grandparents in my dreams every now and then. They have been gone for many years, though...I was also visited recently by our dog who had just passed away (in a dream.) Very poignant.

  2. my loving dog of 12 years was killed by a neighbors dog.i was devastated,but even in death she came to console me the second night by running across the room,jumping in bed with me and snuggling. i was hoping it would happen again,but no. i'll always take comfort in that memory....
    k. jensen