Paranormal Q and A: What type of selectivity do we have for calling spirits? What if a spirit doesn’t want to come?

Each week, I'll answer a question about the paranormal, whether a general question, or one about human or animal ghosts (Earthbound) or spirits (crossed over). Here's this week's question: 

QUESTION: What type of selectivity do we have for calling spirits? What if a spirit doesn’t want to come?

ANSWER: I don't have any control over who comes through. Since we maintain our personalities in death as they were in life, the boldest or most vocal spirit will come through first. For example, I'd love to talk with my dad in spirit more, but since my mother passed, she does all the talking in spirit as she did in life! It's really up to the spirit if they want to talk or not.

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