Rob's Books, Medium Readings, Animal Rescue Fundraisers

BOOKS: Pets and the Afterlife, Pets and the Afterlife 2, Pets and the Afterlife 3, Pets and the Afterlife 4, Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead, Ghosts of England on a Medium's Vacation, Ghosts of the Bird Cage Theatre on a Medium's Vacation, Kindred Spirits: How a Medium Befriended a Spirit, Case Files of Inspired Ghost Tracking and Ghosts and Spirits Explained BEST SELLERS: All of Rob's books have reached "best-seller" status on AMAZON.com in various paranormal categories. PET SPIRIT READINGS: Now offered via email and done on weekends. Reserve a spot thru Paypal. Email me at Rgutro@gmail.com Send 1 Photo of your pet, their name, and any questions.ANIMAL RESCUE FUNDRAISING LECTURES : Rob is a dog dad, volunteers with Dachshund and Weimaraner rescues and does fundraising lectures for dog and cat rescues.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

A Veterans' Day Salute and a Time to Watch for Signs

It's Veterans Day - For all of the Veterans who served and didn't come back in physical form, remember that their spirit is with you today and from time to time. They can hear you. Sound and thoughts are energy.
  Especially today, be vigilant from signs that veterans who passed may try to give you, whether it be a coin with the year of their birth, passing, or an anniversary, to a bird that just seems to linger. They may even bring you to a doppleganger, someone that looked like them, to let you know that they're still around you.

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You can find more information about the signs spirits can give in my book "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead":    SUMMARY: Follow Rob on a treasure-hunt-style journey in Virginia as he and others try to explain what appear to be random and obscure words, signs and symbols from a spirit, that all wind up being intensely personal to the spirit.Explore the science behind how they communicate. Learn how to receive their messages, where they appear, and important messages in how to live your life. Rob takes you into cemeteries, battlefields, and historic places. You’ll see what happens to victims of suicide and murders, and how infants and animals pass messages to the living. Featuring: Inspired Ghost Tracking and mediums Barb Mallon, Troy Cline and Ruth Larkin.


Monday, November 10, 2014

Coins Left on Tombstones

I found this article about the tradition of coins or other things left on tombstones. This is from snopes.com, and explains how the tradition of leaving things on graves progressed over time.  SOURCE: http://www.snopes.com/military/coins.asp
 

COINS LEFT ON TOMBSTONES

While visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave. These coins have distinct meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military, and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.

A coin left on a headstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect. Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited. A nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together, while a dime means you served with him in some capacity. By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the soldier when he was killed.
 
 According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans.  In the US, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war.

Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a "down payment" to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited.

The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.

Origins:   Humans have been leaving mementos on and within the final resting places of loved ones almost from the beginning of the species. Excavations of even the earliest graves uncover goods meant to serve the deceased in the next world, such as pottery, weapons and beads.

The earliest known coins date to the late seventh century B.C. As societies began embracing monetary systems, coins began being left in the graves of its citizens merely as yet another way of equipping the dear departed in the afterlife.

Mythologies within certain cultures added specific purpose for coins being left with the dead. In Greek mythology, Charon, the ferryman of Hades, required payment for his services. A coin was therefore placed in the mouth of the dear departed to ensure he would ferry the deceased across the rivers Styx and Acheron and into the world of the dead rather than leave him to wander the shore for a hundred years. In England and the U.S., pennies were routinely placed on the closed eyes of the dead, yet the purpose for that practice was not clear — some say it was to keep the eyes of the corpse from flying open,
yet the eyes, once shut by the person laying out the body, do not reopen.

In these more modern days, coins and other small items are sometimes discovered on grave markers, be they plaques resting atop the sod or tombstones erected at the head of the burial plot. These small tokens are left by visitors for no greater purpose than to indicate that someone has visited that particular grave. It has long been a tradition among Jews, for example, to leave a small stone or pebble atop a headstone just to show that someone who cared had stopped by. Coins (especially pennies) are favored by others who wish to demonstrate that the deceased has not been forgotten and that instead his loved ones still visit him.

Sometimes these small remembrances convey meaning specific to the person buried in that plot. For more than twenty years, every month someone has been leaving one Campbell's tomato soup can and a pocketful of change on the plain black granite tombstone that marks the grave of Andy Warhol. The soup can is easy to explain, given Warhol's iconic use of that commodity in his art, but the handful of change remains a bit of a mystery. In similar vein, visitors often leave pebbles, coins and maple leaf pins at the grave of Canadian Prime Minister Lester B. Pearson, the man who replaced Canada's Red Ensign with the Maple Leaf flag.

Regarding the 'tradition' of soldiers leaving on the headstones of fallen comrades varying denominations of coins to denote their relationship with the deceased, the earliest reference to this practice we've found so far dates only to June 2009, when it appeared as a web site post. The version now commonly circulated in e-mail appears to have been drawn from it, albeit some changes have slipped in, such as "A buddy who served in the same outfit, or was with the deceased when he died, might leave a quarter" becoming "By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the soldier when he was killed."

Despite the claim of this tradition's dating back to the days of the Roman Empire, there's no reason to suppose that it does. A coin might be placed in the mouth of a fallen Roman soldier (to get him across the River Styx), but his comrades wouldn't be leaving their money on his grave, but rather expending it on a funeral banquet in his honor.

Given the lack of evidence that anyone anywhere is following this 'tradition,' it is perhaps best regarded not as an actual practice, but instead as someone's idea of what should be.

Yet military folk do sometimes leave very special remembrances at the graves of deceased servicemen: challenge coins. These tokens identify their bearers as members of particular units and are prized and cherished by those to whom they have been given; thus any challenge coins found at gravesites were almost certainly left there by comrades-in-arms of the deceased.

It needs be mentioned that not only coins, medallions, and stones have been found on military headstones. In July 2013, a wife of a deceased serviceman discovered another woman's name on her husband's marker in place of her own. Edna Fielden, widow of Air Force Master Sergeant Billy Fielden (buried at Fort Logan Cemetery in Denver 25 years earlier) was shocked to discover the headstone bore the inscription "Dolores" over the legend "His Wife" when she brought her grandchildren to visit the grave.

Barbara "grave mistake" Mikkelson

Last updated:   18 May 2014

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Sources:

    Buchan, Rebecca.   "Toy Cars and Coins Taken from Toddler's Graveside."
    Aberdeen Press and Journal.   6 October 2011   (p. 3).
    Caswell, Emily.   "Ask Us: Pennies on Gravestones Reflect Greek Mythology."
    The Union Leader [Manchester, NH].   13 July 2011   (p. D36).
    Hamill, Sean.   "An Homage in Coins and Soup Cans."
    The International Herald Tribune.   27 February 2007   (p. 9).
    Hogan, Jim.   "Tokens of Remembrance."
    Los Angeles Times.   27 May 2013   (p. A15).
    Lang, Sarah.   "Coins Gone from Strong's Grave."
    The Lebanon Reporter [Indiana].   11 May 2011.
    McArthur, Douglas.   "A Historical Stroll Through Canada's Prime Ministerial Grave Sites."
    The Globe and Mail.   7 October 2000   (p. T4).
    NBC News.   "Military Widow Finds Another Woman's Name Engraved on Her Husband's Tombstone."
    18 June 2013.
    San Jose Mercury News.   "Fans Still Pay Tribute to Allison."
    The Globe and Mail.   14 July 1994   (p. F2).

Read more at http://www.snopes.com/military/coins.asp#IzcPOg7rCB2iYBPG.99

Friday, November 7, 2014

Podcast of my 2 Hour Interview on the U.K.'s PSH Radio!

Did you miss my United Kingdom radio show interview on Oct. 18th? 
You can hear it here! 
I was interviewed by Samantha, the host of the P.S.H. Radio Show/The Haunted Radio Show.
  Samantha had me join her for 2 hours and we really got in-depth with questions and answers about ghosts and spirits, human and animal. I also took a LOT of questions from the great listeners she has! 
You can listen to the podcast - listen while you're at work. :) 
   CLICK to Listen to Rob's Interview with the U.K. PSH Radio Show!
 

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Check out the Haunting Pics from Germany's Lostplace Gallery

I received a message from Marco Stadler in Germany, who shared his  website of abandoned places in the country that

look haunted. He calls it the "Lostplace Gallery."
Thought you'd enjoy seeing them, too.
 
Marco said: i love abandoned places to make photos look its an abandoned church here in germany it was so haunting there

To visit the website:  http://lostplace-fan.npage.de/galerie424662.html
NOTE: The website is entirely in German, and includes some really beautiful videos (also in German).
 

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

A Random Amazon Review I Like!

Here's  Random Amazon Review I Like  for my latest book "Pets and the Afterlife"
5.0 out of 5 stars –A GREAT COMFORT!
on September 27, 2014
Format: Kindle Edition Verified Purchase
 
This is a fantastic book for anyone who has lost a pet and wishes to know what happens when they leave us. In Rob' s own personal experiences and experiences of others in the book, you will find a peace and understanding that will help you through this terrible time of loss. Pets and the Afterlife is a book I will read again and again. I recommend you read it, too. You'll take away only positive thoughts. I promise.
 
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Want to learn about how Pets communicate from the other side?
 PETS AND THE AFTERLIFE by Rob Gutro: The loss of a pet is like the loss of a child to pet owners. The love we share with our pets never dies, and in a new book called "Pets and the Afterlife" by Rob Gutro, the author provides proof that our pets do communicate with us from the other side.    Available in paperback and E-book, on Amazon.com and other outlets at: To order paperback of Kindle- click here
 

Monday, November 3, 2014

I Interviewed Allison about Lunar Cafe.com!

I recently interviewed Allison Wilkins about the  Astrology and tarot website called LunarCafe.com. Allison is the editor of the site, and it's filled with all kinds of interesting things. Here are my Q&A with Allison, and please check out her page! 

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Q) What is LunarCafe.com? 
A )  Based in Los Angeles, CA, Lunar Cafe.com is dedicated to provide a new perspective regarding the spiritual and astrological world. We enjoy familiarizing our readers with up to-date articles and content regarding an array of topics including, but not limited to, horoscopes, tarot readings, numerology, love horoscopes, career horoscopes and astrology. Our focus is to engage all types of readers, from astrology experts to beginners.

Q) What kind of content is on your website? 
A) Lunar Cafe offers numerous pages of unique content for our readers, allowing them to delve into the astrological universe; receiving original daily, weekly and monthly horoscopes as well as tarot card and numerology readings. We will be partnering with top astrologers providing our audience with exclusive and personalized horoscopes and readings. Our astrologers will continuously provide us with improved and authentic content combined with our appealing new features in order to give our audience a positive and stimulating experience.

Q) Are there updated horoscopes? 
A) Yes. There will be up to the minute  general horoscopes and love, career, weekly, monthly and yearly forecasts. We hand select our writers in order to provide you with exciting and new articles on a variety of subjects, from dating to self-help to your most compatible sign.

Q) Who came up with the idea of the website?
A)  One of the founders “Arian Yasha” came up with the idea after months of research and development.

Q.) How did you get interested in horoscopes, tarot, and numerology?
A) - Before going to Astrology field Arian was purely a marketing person but after being introduced to the field through “Youtube” videos; he had to create an astrology hub.

Q.) Did you have personal experiences that pertained to any of these things?
A)  As a matter of fact it did. Arian has lost his grandfather in accident about a year ago and just a couple months ago he lost his father. Based on what I have gathered, spirituality has given him a different perspective after his hardship.

Q) Did someone in your family read tarot ?
A) No one

Q)  What kinds of things would a daily Facebook subscriber see?
A) Currently we’ll be promoting articles with regards to astrology, tarot, and possibly Freebies.

  Q) I saw that "We will be partnering with top astrologers providing our audience with exclusive and personalized horoscopes and readings." -  Does that mean that readings will be awarded to people for various contests? 
A)   Free readings is what we are thinking about. By partnering with Astrologers we meant that they would become contributors to the website. For instance we are currently working with Saturn Sisters to create a Lunar Hub for us.

Q) Have you had paranormal experiences with earth-bound ghosts or spirits who have crossed over?
A) - Fortunately or unfortunately not yet!



Please check out www.lunarcafe.com!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

What is a "Haunting"? Who Haunts People- Ghosts or Spirits?

With Halloween this week, I thought this a great time to address what
"Haunted" really means.

I was inspired to answer this question when a friend of mine asked i if I was being "haunted" by a spirit of someone I love, who visits from time to time

In my books "Ghosts and Spirits" and "Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead" I explain the difference between GHOSTS and SPIRITS. 

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER WE DIE? - The physical energies in living bodies (people or pets) combine with our memories and personalities and we stay on Earth or cross over. That's the difference between a ghost and a spirit.  

WHAT ARE SPIRITS? - Spirits have "crossed over," gone to heaven, Valhalla, Paradise or whatever you want to call the other side. Spirits come back from time to time to give us messages, guide us, help us make decisions, protect us, help us learn lessons and let us know that they're still watching over us and love us.

WHEN DO SPIRITS VISIT?  Spirits come from time to time and don't live with us. They visit on Birthdays, Anniversaries and Holidays for the most part) and lets us know he's fine on the other side. Spirits do NOT "Haunt" people. Only ghosts do.  

WHO HAUNTS PEOPLE?  -  Haunting is a "ghost-only thing. Here's why:
      
WHAT ARE GHOSTS? Ghosts are Earth-bound entities.Ghosts usually stay in one place - usually the place they lived (and liked when alive) and are always there, "Haunting" it.  Ghosts stay for a number of reasons, like unfinished business, or perhaps they were mean or evil when living and don't think they deserve to cross over, so they linger trying to get forgiveness. Sometimes they can attach themselves to an object or a person (if the person is very negative, depressed, angry or has any negative emotion).  Earth-bound ghosts are isolated from peace and stuck on Earth in a kind of isolation (hell) - they know of their relatives in spirit but can't communicate with them or cross over until they get what they need (often forgiveness or a medium to cross them over).

Spirits, like Ed, are at peace in the afterlife. So, NOPE, Ed isn't haunting us, just coming back to say hello and "I love you" from time to time - and usually whenever I call him (as any spirit will come back to people and give messages if asked). 
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To Learn the difference between Ghosts and Spirits and how they communicate with us, check out Rob Gutro's 2nd book Lessons Learned from Talking to the Dead 
$8.99 paperback and $2.99 E-book on AMAZON: http://tinyurl.com/q3bhgde

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SUMMARY for LESSONS LEARNED: Follow Rob on a treasure-hunt-style journey in Virginia as he and others try to explain what appear to be random and obscure words, signs and symbols from a spirit, that all wind up being intensely personal to the spirit.Explore the science behind how they communicate. Learn how to receive their messages, where they appear, and important messages in how to live your life. Rob takes you into cemeteries, battlefields, and historic places. You’ll see what happens to victims of suicide and murders, and how infants and animals pass messages to the living. Featuring: Inspired Ghost Tracking and mediums Barb Mallon, Troy Cline and Ruth Larkin.