Getting a Message Part 5: Feelings and Feeling

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This is the fifth part in getting messages. Getting feelings is one of the ways I usually get my messages from Earth-bound ghosts or spirits who have crossed over. When spirits or ghosts connect with me, they will sometimes share the pain they experienced to tell me how they passed. I've felt a blow to the head, shot, stabbed, punched, heart attack, shortness of breath, severe abdominal pain, and once while walking through a castle in England I felt a ghostly sword slice through my left shoulder.
  In addition, I've also felt the emotions that spirits or ghosts experience. Whenever a spirit comes through, sometimes the love they're sharing is overwhelming and it literally brings me to tears. Other spirits direct me to hug the person they're communicating to through me.
   Ghosts and spirits will also convey they are present by poking, moving things, and more. When my dad passed, his spirit came to me that night and gave me a cold hug in my kitchen, some 400 miles away. Why was it cold, and why do ghost hunters comment on "cold spots" when ghosts are communicating?  Because of energy. fast moving molecules of air are present in warm air. when the energy is removed (by a ghost or spirit so they can energize), the  molecules slow down and the air cools.
  So, spirits and ghosts can communicate their feelings, either physical or emotional, and make us feel them, too.
NEXT WEEK: Getting a Message: Sounds and Voice 

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Getting a Message Part 4: Dreams

This is part four in a series of how to acknowledge messages. One of the easiest ways for us to get messages from the other side is to see our loved ones in our dreams.When we lose a loved one we immediately want a sign from them that they're okay. Because our GRIEF blocks those signals, one of the easiest ways for spirits to come to us then, is in our dreams. When we're awake, not only does grief block out signs, but so does our logical minds. We're always taught to explain things or discount them as being a coincidence. There is no such thing as a coincidence.

I Had a Dream of My Mom! What does it mean? - My mom passed away on Dec. 29, 2013, so the event is still very raw to me. When I awoke on Thursday, January 16th, I remembered that I dreamt of my mother. She was in her kitchen, looking decades younger and all dressed up. Almost like this picture I took in 2005, but mom appeared about 20 years younger (in her 50s). She said that I need to "put this on your key tag" - and handed me something off her house and car keys. I'm not sure what the object was - perhaps a tag, or a key. Whatever it was, she wanted me to carry something of hers with me. I think that that was the message.

My mom in her kitchen, similar to how I saw her in the dream

WHAT DOES A SPIRIT IN A DREAM MEAN?  Spirits come into our dreams usually when they can't convey a message to us in other ways. They come to us to show us that they're okay on the other side. Usually it's a peaceful setting. My partner  dreamt of someone who passed walking through a meadow with him - that's a common scenario.
   What's interesting is that after my dad passed he never came to me in a dream. Likely because he was so active in my waking moments. He played with electricity, gave me messages I could understand, I heard him, sensed him and even saw him. With my mom, I heard her a couple of times, and she gave me the musical sign. This was a really great confirmation.
   Don't feel frustrated if your loved one doesn't come to you in a dream. They may have tried other ways to contact you and have been unsuccessful. It doesn't mean they're ignoring you. In fact, it's likely quite the opposite. They're likely on the other side saying "Why doesn't my loved one just see the darn signs I'm giving them!?!"


COMING NEXT: Getting a Message: Feeling and Feelings
 

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Getting a Message Part 3: Music/Words

Spirits love to use television, radio and music as a means to communicate with us. Spirits and ghosts are both made up of energy and their personalities and memories. As energy, they have the ability to tune into electricity and radio/tv waves and they can manipulate it. On the other side, spirits would also know what radio station is playing what song, so they can influence you to turn a certain radio station on at a certain time, to hear a song that will remind you of them.
   The same thing goes for television. You may walk into your living room and d

ecide to see what's on television, and hit the remote to pick a channel. The channel may be showing a program or actor that they loved when they were on the physical plane. That's because they're influencing you to turn on the TV at that particular time, to send you a message that they're with you.
  Music is especially healing and a great means for spirits to communicate. When my puppy Buzz passed, I came into the house after the terrible accident that took his life and I heard Alan Jackson's song "(My heart is as empty as a) Monday Morning Church." It was the song of a man singing about the loss of the love of his life. That was no coincidence. It was a message from Buzz.
  So, pay attention to music, what's being said on TV or on the radio whenever you're inspired to turn them on... or if you put a CD in your car and the song reminds you of someone who passed... know they are there with you.
NEXT WEEK: Getting a Message: Dreams 

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My note to Anyone Whose Loved one is Failing

I wrote this note to a friend whose mother is dying in a hospital, and please share it with anyone you know who is facing the same situation. Hopefully it will bring them comfort. 
   It seems that December, January and the first couple of days of February have been filled with notes of people passing.  - Rob 

   I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My mom just passed on Dec. 29. I wanted to remind you that even though she's failing, she's still going to be around you. My mom gave signs when she was in a coma (a musical sign) that it was her time. She gave me signs and messages after she passed, too. 
   Our bodies are just a physical shell for our souls and spirit and they wear down, but our spirit doesn't. I read your note about hoping your mom doesn't have pain. When my partner and I finally got to Boston (from Maryland) and saw my mom, the hardest thing was telling her it was okay to pass, because I didn't want to see her suffer anymore (she was in a coma and had little chance of any recovery- other than living with 100% assistance and a feeding tube- which she would never want). So, I told her it was okay to cross over, and felt my dad and other (late) relatives spirits in the room. She crossed the next day. 
   You have shown your mom great love and given her the best gift-  permission to go on to the next stage of life. 
   Saying "goodbye" isn't really a "goodbye," because our loved ones spirits live on around us, help us, watch over us, guide us and protects us a lot easier than they did when they were living in a physical body. We're just not going to see their physical bodies anymore, but we will feel them around us. It's just the transition that is difficult, but over time you'll realize they're still with you.
 Love and hugs, Rob

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Getting a Message Part 2: Being Creative

Spirits will influence us to do things. Sometimes we'll do things we don't usually think of, and that may be the mark of a guiding hand from the other side. For example, if you're sitting listening to a lecture and you're doodling, you may draw a ship. If you happen to next look at a calendar, you may realize that your grandma went on a cruise a couple of years ago on this date. That would mean that she's influencing you to draw a ship because she's near you. There is no such thing as a coincidence.
   If you're inspired to write to someone out of the blue, it may be because some spirit attached to the person you decide to write to has influenced you. The spirit could influence you to write to their loved one because they need to hear from someone that day.
   Spirit may move you to pick up a box of old photos and dig them out to scan and put on your computer (how many of us keep saying we'll do that!?). Then, you find a photo of your Aunt Tillie and Uncle Richard and memories come flooding in. They inspired you to go to the box and find the picture to scan them in!
    So, writing, drawing, baking, cooking, crafting, etc. can all be suggestions from spirit telling us they're around.
NEXT WEEK: Getting a Message: Music/Words

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