Every week I get a good number of emails from grieving pet parents who dog or cat passed, and they ask me to connect if I can. Fortunately, pets are great communicators!
Here's a series of emails about a Cat named Max that came through to me. Just look at the ways he let me know that it was him - there were so many ways!!
EMAIL TO ME:
Hi Rob, I really appreciate you giving me comfort that my family and
I will see my beautiful Cat Max that was 16 years old and lived with us for 16
years will be waiting for us in heaven we die one day. I wanted to ask you if
you are able to connect with Max and find out from him if he is happy and
feeling healthy and at peace where he is. My husband and I and our son have
been quite upset about his passing and it would be great if we knew how he is
doing. Thank you so much!!
MY EMAIL AND MAX'S MESSAGES:
Hi - When I read your note I kept seeing a somewhat striped cat
tail curling around, and his ears are perked up. Of course, I have no
idea what he looked like. But he is safely on the other side.
Was
there someone that you referenced to him as "uncle" who passed away? I
keep hearing Uncle... or is the "uncle" someone that he particularly
liked on this side? He seems quite connected to him.
His health is perfect - as we all achieve perfect health in spirit- because we become pure energy.
Max is also showing that he likes to lay on his side, I think it's his
right side and expose his tummy. Did he do that? He's purring
contentedly, too, telling me that he's grateful for the wonderful life
he had with you and is still going to come around.
You may
see him as a shadow from the corner of your eye, or may even feel his
presence jump on a bed or a couch. Mostly likely, he'll make an
appearance in all of your dreams.
He will always be connected to you!
Hope you can make sense of some of these things and they bring you comfort.
EMAIL CONFIRMING WHAT MAX SHOWED ME:
Max did have a
striped tail. He was a domestic long hair gray and white cat. Max did like
lying on his right side on our carpet in the living room. I am so happy that is
safely on the other side and that he is happy and purring and in perfect health.
It is amazing that you said an uncle that passed away because my uncle Vince
did pass away around a month ago. Do you know if this is the uncle that Max is
connected to on the other side. I am so grateful to you for connecting with
Max. This really does bring comfort to my family and I.
I just want to ask you something else if that is okay. Do
you know if Max is upset with my husband and I for having him put down. Because
I am sometimes feeling guilty for doing that but I know that he was not doing
well and that’s why we decided to do that.
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A pic of Max sent to me after the first couple of emails |
MY RESPONSE AND MORE MESSAGES FROM MAX: Max is not upset with you or your husband. In fact, he's thankful that you both were strong enough to recognize that he was tired of fighting and wanted to move on, and have the courage to help make that happen. It is the most unselfish act of unconditional love that we can show for each other.
He doesn't want you to feel guilt. He thanks you and wants you to know how much he appreciates your love.
EMAIL CONFIRMING APPEARANCE IN DREAMS!
Hi Rob,I hope you are doing great!! I had my
first dream of Max last night since he has passed away. He was in his litter
box and he looked fine, also I noticed there was hardly any cat litter in his
box and as I was watching him he was slowly getting smaller in size and then
just disappeared. You were right about me seeing him in a dream. Thanks again
for everything!!
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